All Women Need to Read Why Men Love Bitches

I found a book that has changed my life. A book by Sherry Argov called Why Men Love Bitches is really a must-have for all women. This is a book on relationships and how being the nice girl will never get you anywhere. Being a bitch in this book is not a bad thing. It is being a strong, assertive woman.

Going after what you want and getting what you want. Playing the nice girl and bending over backwards for men is not the way to go. I have had one bad relationship after another. Thinking always that I needed to just do as the guy says. I was to overbearing, to sexual, and to willing to give in. After reading this book I have realized all the mistakes that I have made in the past. I can now go into another new relationship feeling more confident about myself.

This book is an easy read with easy to understand rules and explanations. The book starts with the definition of the nice girl. Taking an excerpt from this " Everyone has known a "nice girl" She is the woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without having to invest much in the relationship. She's the woman who gives blindly because she wants so much for her attentions to reciprocated. She's the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or want because she watns to keep the relationship at all costs.

Every woman, at some point, has been there" (Argov) I read this and I was thinking to myself oh no this is me. I am that nice girl. I also know many nice girls, who go out of their way for their men and they end up getting crushed over and over again.

As the book continues each chapter is about how a woman should be to get the relationship to work. Within the chapters are rules called the "Attraction Principles" these are again listed at the end so that they can be remembered. Each principle is witty and well written. For an example "Attraction Principle #37 If you give him a feeling of power, he'll want to protect you and he'll want to give you the world" Then it goes into how you achieve this principle and sometimes goes into an example on how this worked for someone else.

I read this book feeling as those I was the dumbest woman in the world not figuring this out on my own. But as each chapter went by I felt more of a sense of self. I started believing I can be a strong woman and no longer let males control my actions. I need to be happy first and that will lead a man to be happy with me. So simple but it took a great book to help me figure this out. Please read this book, it has changed me and I know will soon help me finally be in a healthy relationship.