First trimester
Congratulations – you're having a baby! Our handy first-trimester
shopping checklist will help you figure out what to buy during these
early weeks. And don't forget to move on to our second-trimester and third-trimester shopping checklists when it's time.
Pregnancy books
Now's the time to start your pregnancy and parenting library! Start with basics and classics, like
The Girlfriends' Guide to Pregnancy, by Vicki Iovine
Pregnancy: From Preconception to Birth, and
The Pregnancy Book: Month-by-Month,
Everything You Need to Know From America's Baby Experts, by William and Martha Sears.
New pants or a waistband extender
Your
belly may not be visibly rounder yet, but your pants may not be fitting
as well, even just a few weeks in. A new pair of pants with a bit of
Lycra stretch might round out your wardrobe perfectly.
If you
don't want to start buying new clothes just yet, try a waistband
extender such as the Belly Belt or Bella Band. Keeping comfy is your new
mission, and it's more important than you may think: Some women report
that a looser waistband helps with morning sickness.
Body pillow
Some
pregnant women say their number one favorite purchase is their body
pillow. Even this early, you may get uncomfortable easily, and a body
pillow may help you get a better night's sleep.
Tooth care
Your mouth may be drier, your gums more sensitive – and you're more susceptible to gingivitis now.
Preventing periodontal disease
is vital for pregnant women, so buy yourself a nice new, soft-bristled
toothbrush and some dental floss and use them every day to keep your
mouth fresh and healthy. See more products to keep in your medicine cabinet during pregnancy.
A comfy cotton bra
Your
breasts are probably feeling more tender now. And while you may not be
ready for a maternity bra, a sports bra or comfortable cotton bra
without underwire will give you gentle support and ease discomfort.
A good body lotion
Your
skin may start feeling drier, especially on your belly as it grows and
your skin stretches. Find a good all-over moisturizer that you can
slather on now and throughout your pregnancy. To discover other products
you might need, see our handy pregnancy medicine cabinet checklist.
Pregnancy journal
You've
just begun an incredible journey. How are you feeling? What are you
thinking? Jot down your emotions, thoughts, or questions in a pregnancy
journal. It can help you feel connected to the little person growing
inside you and will be a one-of-a-kind keepsake after your baby is born.
Second trimester
Your belly is growing, and your life is shifting to accommodate lots
of changes. Maternity clothing is entering the picture, but it's also a
great time to start shopping for your baby – before you're too tired and
big-bellied to want to spend much time in stores.
Our handy second-trimester shopping checklist will help you figure out what to buy now. And don't forget to move on to our third-trimester shopping checklist when it's time.
Maternity wear
Your
belly is expanding, but your pants aren't. Now's the time to explore
the world of maternity clothes, but that doesn't mean sacrificing style.
A nice pair of bootcut jeans, a tunic top, or a pretty wrap dress
flatters almost every blossoming body type.
Sleep aids
By now you may need some extra help getting a good night's sleep. Fans, noise machines, earplugs, and body pillows are all useful aids for helping pregnant women get their zzz's.
Glider or rocker
Late-night
feedings will be easier on you and more soothing for your baby if you
can spend them in a rocking chair or glider. The back-and-forth motion
calms a crying baby and eases lower back pain. While you're at it, add a
matching footstool or ottoman for propping up tired, swollen feet
during pregnancy.
Newborn clothes
You'll
probably find it impossible to resist buying those adorable little
booties, wee knit caps, and pint-size stretch suits you see in the baby
department. Your little one will look adorable in all of them – either
go ahead and splurge or add them to your registry. Visit Baby clothes: The first six weeks for help picking out a well-rounded selection for your baby.
A little preparation goes a long way when shopping or registering for
baby clothes. You'll be changing your baby's clothing several times a
day – babies can be messy! – so make sure outfits are uncomplicated and
open easily for diaper changes. In general, you want soft, comfortable
clothing with no irritating tags or seams.
A note on sizing: It's
hard to predict which size clothing your baby will need at first. Many
babies outgrow newborn or 0- to 3-month clothes quickly, and some larger
babies skip the newborn sizes completely and start with 3-month or 3-
to 6-month sizes. Others will start out in preemie sizes and wear
newborn clothes for months. The best tip is to buy clothing in several
sizes and return what you don't use.
How many of each item
you'll
need will depend on how often you plan to do laundry, but we've
provided rough guidelines below (in parentheses).
Clothing to buy for your newborn
One-piece outfits (5 to 7):
Some of these are basically spiffed-up jammies appropriate for sleeping
and playing – and because babies nap so frequently, especially at
first, these are very convenient.
Shirts (4 to 7):
Look for T-shirts and turtlenecks with plenty of room in the neck, or
snaps at the neck, so they slip easily over your child's head. Many
parents prefer one-piece styles that snap at the crotch.
Leggings or pull-on pants (5 to 7):
Separates allow you to change one piece of dirty clothing without
assembling a whole new outfit, so they're useful to have. Look for
stretchy waistbands that fit easily over your baby's diaper and belly –
and expand as he gains weight.
Sweater or jacket (1):
Most babies don't like having clothes pulled over their head, so warm
up your baby with a sweater or jacket that buttons down the front.
Pajamas or sleepers (4 to 7): No matter how cute it looks, avoid sleepwear that has complicated snaps or requires lots of effort to get on or off!
Wearable blankets (2 to 3):
These fleece or cotton sacks zip over your baby's sleepwear to keep him
warm at night. They replace traditional blankets, which aren't safe for sleeping babies
because of the risk of SIDS. You may or may not need these, depending
on the climate you live in and the season when your baby's born.
Fleecewear or snowsuits:
If you have a winter baby, you may want a one-piece fleece suit to keep
him warm on outings. They're often hooded and come in many styles.
Another option is to avoid bulky snowsuits and slip your baby into a
snug, fleece-lined stroller sack (designed to accommodate the harnesses
in strollers and car seats).
Socks and booties: You'll need lots of socks for indoors and some booties to keep your baby's feet warm when you're out and about.
Hats (1 to 3): You'll want a broad-brimmed hat for a summer baby, or a soft, warm hat that covers the ears for a winter baby.
Tips for dressing your newborn
Avoid
clothes that wrap around your baby's neck too tightly and those that
have cords or ties. Check buttons, ribbons, and decorative items to make
sure they're on securely – if they come off, they're a choking hazard.
When
dressing your infant, make the clothes fit your baby and not the other
way around. Open snaps and stretch necks wide so you can ease your
baby's head through them. Reach through sleeves and legs first to help
guide wiggly hands and feet.
It's often easiest to dress your
infant on the changing table or floor. Try cooing and talking to your
baby as you put on each piece so he will associate getting dressed with
special time with you.
Changing table
You'll
need a place to change your baby's diapers. A bureau or low dresser
with a cushioned changing pad will work just fine. But a stand-alone changing table can be nice, too.
The lowdown on changing tables
You'll change 2,400 diapers by
your baby's first birthday – so you'll definitely want to create a
comfortable place for diaper changes.
Changing tables

If
you have the cash and the space, you have your choice of well-designed,
practical, and attractive changing tables. It can be worth the
investment: Many parents use changing tables well into their child's
second year, and if you buy a combination dresser and changing table,
you can use it in your child's room for years.
See a slide show of some of our
favorite changing tables.
Other options
Do you have to buy a table designed just for the purpose of changing diapers? Not necessarily.
Some
parents simply change their baby on the floor or bed, on a waterproof
changing pad or towel, with diapering supplies stowed in a nearby
basket. If your back can take it, this approach works.
Others buy a
changing pad and place it on top of a dresser, storing diapers and
wipes in the top drawer. If you're going this route, make sure that you
buy a thick changing pad and that your dresser is at a comfortable
height for you. A contoured pad will help keep your baby from rolling
too far in either direction. For safety's sake, make sure the pad has a
safety strap to hold your baby
and a strap or other secure system to anchor it to the dresser.
Another
money- and space-saving alternative is a play yard that includes a
removable changing table insert. You can only use this feature until
your baby reaches the manufacturer's recommended weight limit, usually
25 or 30 pounds.
Important safety notes
Although
a strap is a great aid, it's not a substitute for your hands-on
supervision. Never leave your baby unattended on a changing table or any
elevated surface, even for a moment. Babies can roll or flip off high
places in an instant. Always keep at least one hand on or right near
your baby to prevent serious injuries.
What to look for when buying
When
it comes to changing tables, you have two options: a basic changing
table with a shelf or shelves or a combination dresser and changing
table.
With either style, look for the following features:
A guardrail:
The higher the protective guardrail around the table, the better. The
American Academy of Pediatrics recommends a railing that's at least 2
inches high on all sides.
Safety straps: Plenty of models provide them, or you can add your own.
Sturdiness:
This is essential. Look for sturdy, stable legs. Shake the table with
your hands, and if it feels rickety, choose another model.
Storage:
You'll appreciate a handy place to store diapers, wipes, and creams,
whether in drawers or on shelves. You shouldn't have to bend or take
your eyes off your baby to access these items.
Versatility:
A well-designed basic changing table can be used as shelving to store
toys and blankets once your child's done with diapers. And a combination
dresser and changing table can be used for years, as long as it's well
made. Just remove the changing pad and use it as a regular dresser.
What it's going to cost you
Basic
changing tables cost between $80 and $200. Combination dresser and
changing tables can cost anywhere from $200 to $500 or more depending on
the design and materials.
Crib and mattress
You
can get by without a crib at first – your newborn can sleep in a
bassinet or Moses basket. But unless you plan to have your baby share your bed, you'll eventually need a crib and crib mattress.
Baby bedding
You'll
want a few changes of sheets for your baby's crib and bassinet, if
you're using these. A few warm blankets, thinner "receiving" blankets,
and special swaddling blankets can also come in handy. Keep loose
blankets, quilts, and pillows out of your baby's sleeping space,
however, because soft bedding makes
SIDS more likely.
Nursery accessories
Decorating
your baby's room can be a lot of fun. Start small – add a colorful
touch to the nursery with pretty wall stencils, a nice switch plate, or a
colorful mobile. A soft, friendly stuffed animal can keep watch over
your little one from a shelf or a dresser.
Third trimester
Now that you're in your third trimester, the excitement of buying
baby gear may have worn off a little. You're getting tired of browsing
and just want to know what you still need.
Our third-trimester shopping checklist will help you with what to buy now.
Belly support band
As
your baby drops into position for a grand entrance, you may feel an
equally grand pressure in your pelvis. You can alleviate some of it by
slipping on a maternity support band. Glamorous it isn't, but it helps
eliminate back, leg, and abdominal pain. Plus, you can wear it discreetly under most clothes.
Feeding supplies
Things
you may need: bibs for spit-up; a nursing pillow to help you support
your baby during feedings; nipple cream to soothe sore nipples; nursing
bras and nursing pads; a breast pump, bottles, nipples.
Diaper supplies
Stock
up now on diapers, either cloth or disposable – you'll be going through
ten to 12 diapers a day during the first few weeks. You'll also need
diaper wipes and diaper cream or petroleum jelly for preventing diaper rash, and a diaper bag to carry supplies when you're on the go.
For stashing dirty diapers, some parents like having a special diaper disposal system, while others use a regular garbage can.
Baby bathtub
A tub specially designed to hold your wriggling baby is a great way to get him clean after all those diaper changes.
Buy a baby Bathtubs
The lowdown on baby bathtubs

Rub-a-dub-dub – ready for the tub? Maybe not. Bathing your baby in an adult-sized tub can be a slippery, nerve-wracking challenge without the right baby bathtub.
Luckily,
you have lots of choices these days: hard plastic tubs, foldable tubs,
tubs with sling inserts to hold infants in place, inflatable tubs, and
even bubbling baby spas.
Many tubs are contoured for comfort. Some
are lined with a soft sponge interior. And the best will make it much
easier – and more fun – to bathe your squirming child.
Of course,
some parents love to get right in the tub and bathe with their babies.
That's fine, as long as you're careful that your baby doesn't bonk his
head on a hard surface or slip out of your grasp.
You
can also wash your baby in the sink, at least until he gets too big.
There are even baby bathtubs made specifically for this purpose.
If
you're not using the sink, consider putting your baby bathtub on the
floor or a sturdy table to save your back from all that leaning over.
Young babies don't need much water to in (just a few inches), and this
way your child will be right at your level.
Wherever you bathe your baby, make sure you stay close and follow all the safe bathing guidelines. First and foremost,
never leave your baby unattended in the tub,
not even for a second. If the doorbell rings and you have to answer it,
grab a towel, scoop your baby up, and take him with you.
What to look for when buying
Here are some points to consider when buying a baby bathtub:

Some
"convertible" tubs are designed to grow from newborn to toddler days.
They have a removable sling or hammock to keep your newborn higher in
the water and closer to you. After a few months, you can remove this
insert to create more room for your older child to sit up and splash.

If
the tub doesn't have a sling or hammock for newborns, make sure it has a
gentle incline to keep your younger baby lying supported in a slightly
upright position.

When
buying a hard plastic tub, look for a contoured, smooth shape that will
be comfortable for your baby. Some tubs also have a mildew-resistant
foam lining.

Some
baby tubs come with a hook or suction cup so you can hang it out of
reach (like on the wall of the shower area or bathroom) when not using
it. This can also help you make sure the tub drains completely and
doesn't get moldy.

Look for a tub with a plug at the base so you can easily drain the water out after bath time.

Foldable
tubs are more convenient for storing and carrying, especially when
traveling, but often aren't as solid and sturdy as non-foldable ones.

Some parents like to use a baby bath seat or ring
once their child can sit up unassisted. However, some safety groups say
these aren't safe, and they may not be any more helpful than a regular
baby bathtub.

Consumer Reports recommends against inflatable baby bath tubs: The safety group says these can collapse.
Another
option is to buy a baby bath pad or sponge. These go on the bottom of
the adult tub and keep your baby cushioned and comfy during bathtime.
Some baby bathtubs are made specifically for the sink, and can make it easier to bathe your baby there.
Baby
"spa tubs" and other upscale models feature bells and whistles such as
water jets and handheld shower units. These extras aren't necessary by
any means, but some parents enjoy them.
Before you buy a baby bathtub (or any baby product), read the online reviews to make sure it actually works as promised.
What it's going to cost you
Most baby bathtubs cost between $15 and $40, but fancier models with spa features can cost up to $90.
Baby carrier
A handy (or, more accurately, hands-free) way to tote your baby around is with a sling or front carrier,
a soft, pouchlike seat that holds your newborn close to your chest.
Many babies love the feeling of being snuggled up to a parent's warmth,
and a baby carrier leaves your arms free for housework or errands with
your little one protected and close to you.
The close contact
encouraged by slings and front carriers may have a bonus: Some experts,
including pediatrician William Sears, say it helps strengthen the
parent-child bond. Just make sure that your baby's face isn't covered at
any time when in a sling or carrier. If your baby has a cold or any
breathing issues, or was born at a low birth weight, check with your
doctor before using a sling – they can be unsafe for some newborns.
Stroller
A stroller
is essential parenting gear. But with hundreds of styles to choose
from, selecting the right wheels for your baby can be challenging.
In
general, sturdy strollers with locking wheels and safety harnesses keep
your baby safe while lightening your load. Consider what you'll use
your stroller for, whether it's navigating busy urban streets, jogging,
or gentle strolls around the block. Which features are most important to
you, and how much are you willing to spend?
Car seat
In
the United States, it's the law: A baby has to be buckled up tight
while riding in the car. Guarantee your bundle of joy a safe – and legal
– ride home by buying a car seat now, while you still have time to check out the different brands and decide which one's right for you (and best fits your car).
Nursing bras and tops
If you plan to breastfeed, invest in a couple of nursing bras or camisoles now and tuck them into your hospital bag.
Look for bras with good support that aren't too tight (you'll
appreciate that when your breasts are engorged). Practice opening and
closing the soft cup that covers the nipple so you'll be a pro by the
time your baby arrives.
Baby books
Start getting ready for your new arrival with a few primers on baby care and development. Check out Dr. Sears'
The Baby Book,
Jo Frost's Confident Baby Care, or our very own
BabyCenter Baby: The All-Important First Year.
Baby extras
Though not technically essential, these items are must-haves according to many parents: an infant swing
(the soothing back-and-forth motion can calm a cranky infant), and a
bouncy seat to jiggle and soothe your baby. Also, a baby monitor is a
great way to keep tabs on your baby in one room while you're in another.
Baby and mom gear for the first six weeks
What do you need in those first few weeks after you bring your baby
home? We asked the experts, and then checked in with parents – and found
that people have very different ideas of what's essential.
Still,
your baby will require a few basics: a place to sleep; a safe seat in
the car; diapers; and some key items for eating, getting around, and
staying safe. We also asked moms to tell us which extras make the first
six weeks with a baby more comfortable and fun.
Don't forget,
family and friends can help you stock up on what you need and want if
you create a baby registry.
Feeding
Nursing pillow: These nifty pillows help you comfortably support your baby during feedings.
Bibs (4): Bibs keep spit-up and drool off clothes – need we say more?
Burp cloths (6 to 12): You can take these essential items everywhere to protect your clothes from the inevitable baby spit-up and other liquid spills.
Nipple cream:
Breastfeeding can dry out the delicate skin of your nipples, and nipple
creams ease dryness, heal cracked skin, and soothe soreness.
Breast pump:
If you're exclusively breastfeeding, pumping means that another
caregiver (like your partner or Grandma) can take some of the feedings.
The lowdown on breast pumps
Find solutions to a variety of breastfeeding challenges, including nipple pain, low milk supply, and more.
Whether
you're getting ready to go back to work or you just want to get some
rest or go out, using a breast pump means that your baby can benefit
from your milk even when you're not available.
There are several
different types of breast pumps to choose from. Selecting just the right
one will help you keep your milk flowing and prevent plugged ducts or
an infection. Whichever pump you pick, it's a good idea to have it ready
to go well before you return to work or leave your baby with a sitter.
It's
best to start pumping and introduce a bottle as soon as breastfeeding
is established, when your baby's 3 or 4 weeks old. Many babies will
refuse a bottle if it's introduced later on. To keep your baby willing to take the bottle, offer it with an ounce or two of breast milk inside at least every three or four days.
Types of breast pumps
There
are many styles and models of breast pumps, but they fall into two main
categories: Electric/battery-powered and manual (which you operate by
hand). While some women use both – one for the bulk of their pumping,
the other for short trips – most moms strongly prefer one or the other.
To figure out which one suits you best, here's a look at your options:
For moms having trouble breastfeeding: Hospital-grade electric breast pumps
If
you're having trouble nursing during those first few weeks after you
give birth, or your baby isn't able to nurse enough to build up your
milk supply, your caregiver may recommend using this kind of pump. This
pump will probably be what you'll use if your baby's a preemie or in the
NICU, or if you're a mom with a medical condition that affects how much
milk you produce.
A heavy-duty hospital-grade model with a double
collection kit has a rapid suck-and-release cycle (referred to as the
cycling time) that draws milk from your breasts at about the same rate
as a nursing baby.
A double collection kit means you can pump both
breasts at once, which can cut pumping time in half and drain both
breasts more effectively.
For moms who need to pump more than once a day: Top-end electric personal-use pumps
Combining
the efficiency of hospital-grade pumps and the convenience of more
portable models, top-end electric pumps are a popular choice for moms
who return to work full-time or are frequently away from their baby and
can't nurse regularly.
These pumps are fully automatic, with quick
cycling times, adjustable suction levels (to help you avoid nipple
discomfort), and double-pumping capability. They're generally intended
for women who have a well-established milk supply.
Some models are designed to mimic a baby's sucking patterns: They start with short, quick sucks to elicit the
letdown response and
then move into a slower, deeper sucking pattern. This feature can make
pumping more comfortable, but it doesn't necessarily mean you'll produce
more milk.
Generally weighing in at 5 pounds or less, these pumps
come in attractive carrying cases and often include accessories like
storage bags, labels, clips, bottles, and nipple ointment.
Most
top-end pumps can run on a car's cigarette lighter with an adapter
that's sold separately. Many come with a built-in battery pack – both
handy options if you're pumping on the go or in a room lacking an
electrical outlet.
For moms pumping once a day or less: Inexpensive manual and mid-range electric or battery-operated pumps
These
pumps are best for short-term separations – for instance, a mom who
wants to leave her baby with a sitter every now and then and doesn't
want to
supplement with formula.
These
pumps are more portable (most weigh less than 2 pounds) and more
affordable than the high-end models. On the downside, they generally
take a little longer to use and require a little more effort than the
top-end electric pumps.
Mid-range electric or battery-operated pumps
generally allow you to pump only one breast at a time and take twice as
long to pump. While there are some double electric pumps in this
category, the motors may not last as long as those in the more expensive
models. If the pump is battery-operated, the batteries may need to be
replaced (unless you get a rechargeable unit).
Semiautomatic
models tend toward long cycling times. (Some produce only about 12 sucks
per minute, compared to 50 to 60 per minute for top-end and
hospital-grade pumps.) The suction can often be too strong or too weak,
although some have adjustable suction.
Inexpensive manual pumps
require you to pump a piston or squeeze a lever to create the suction
to empty your breast. These pumps empty only one breast at a time and
may require two hands to operate, although a few are designed for
one-handed use.
While most moms who need to pump regularly opt for
a more efficient electric model, some women rave about manual pumps'
simplicity and convenient size. Many also say that some manual pumps
feel more natural and more closely mimic a baby's sucking and that they
like being able to control the suction by hand.
Hand pumps are
generally more affordable, smaller, lighter, and quieter than electric
pumps. And if you like to pump on one side while your baby is nursing on
the other, he'll probably prefer the quiet of a manual pump over the
noise of an electric one.
While some moms get the knack of
effective manual pumping, others find these pumps maddeningly slow. (It
depends to some degree on how quickly you can squeeze the pump handle –
and this can get tiring.)
Some moms have trouble getting any milk
at all with hand pumps. Others say that hand pumps don't completely
empty their breasts, which can lead to a lowered milk supply.
A note of caution: Stay away from the older models that look like bicycle horns. The rubber balls can harbor harmful bacteria.
Important safety notes
Though it may be tempting to share
or borrow a friend's breast pump, or buy one used, the FDA and
breastfeeding experts generally caution against it. Breast milk can
carry bacteria and viruses – including hepatitis, HIV, and
cytomegalovirus – that can contaminate these pumps and pass an infection
to you and your baby.
Because droplets of milk can get into the
internal parts of these pumps, using your own collection kit doesn't
necessarily make them safe to use.
Pumps designed for multiple
users, like rental pumps and hospital pumps, don't have this problem.
They're designed to prevent breast milk from getting inside the pump. So
as long as you use one with your own personal collection kit, they're
safe.
Also, hand-me-down pumps may not be as effective because
pump motors lose their strength and the seals deteriorate over time, two
problems that may lead to a loss of suction.
To find out whether a
pump is okay to use secondhand, check the packaging or call the
manufacturer. If it's designated as a "single-user" pump, only one
person should use it.
When using only one side of a double pump,
be sure to seal the side you're not using. Not doing so is a common
mistake and reduces the pump's suction, which can lead to a drop in milk
production.
Choose the right size breast shields so when you pump, your nipple doesn't rub along the shield's chamber, which could hurt your breast.
If you're not going to pump again within a few hours, clean your pump
parts with mild soap and warm water. Take the pump completely apart
(that is, all the accessible parts) and wash it. A bottle brush works
well. Some pumps come with a brush for cleaning.
If you see milk residue in the tubes, clean them
according to the manufacturer's instructions. Most of the time, you can
use warm water with a mild detergent to clean them. Just be sure to dry
the tubes completely before putting them back on the pump.
Formula: If you can't or don't plan to breastfeed, there are numerous infant formula options to choose from – check out our
formula primer and talk to your healthcare provider.
Bottles and nipples: Even if you breastfeed exclusively, you'll want to have
bottles and newborn nipples at home if you plan to pump. If you plan to use formula exclusively, you'll go through roughly ten 4-ounce bottles a day.
Diapering
Changing table: A bureau or low dresser with a cushioned changing pad will work just fine. But a stand-alone changing table comes with nice extras like safety railings and lots of storage space.
Diapers:
Much of your life in these early weeks involves changing diapers. About
80 percent of parents opt for disposables. Others choose a cloth diaper
service, wash cloth diapers at home, or use biodegradable or flushable
diapers.
Decide which kind of diapers you want to use and stock up
ahead of time. Keep in mind you'll be going through ten to 12 diapers
each day during the first few weeks.
Diaper wipes: For cleaning your baby's bottom during changings.
Diaper cream or petroleum jelly: A soothing balm protects your little one's tender skin against diaper rash.
A diaper disposal system:
This is a handy, effective way to store used diapers until you're ready
to take out the trash. Unlike a standard-issue garbage pail, a diaper
disposal system hides diaper odor.
Diaper bag:
Whether you're going to the neighbor's house or to the grocery store,
you'll need to tote along everything necessary for changing diapers away
from home. Pick a bag you really like the looks of, because it'll be
part of your outfit for months to come. But it has to be practical, with
a portable changing pad, a waterproof lining, and places to stash your
keys, wallet, and phone.
Sleeping
Crib: Your newborn can sleep in a bassinet. But unless you plan to have your baby share your bed, you'll eventually need a crib.
Mattress: Shop for a firm innerspring or foam crib mattress.
Bedding and padding:
Buy at least two sets of crib sheets to cut down on laundry panic. Save
quilts and blankets for out-of-the-crib cuddling, though, as soft
bedding poses a potential SIDS risk. The same goes for crib bumpers —they pose a SIDS risk, and experts recommend not using them.
keep your baby cozy and warm without blankets
It's safer not to use any sort of loose or thick bedding in your baby's
crib, at least for the first year. That because too much bedding, or the
wrong kind of bedding, can cause accidental suffocation and
overheating, which are believed to be a risk factor for sudden infant death syndrome, or SIDS.
A
skullcap and pajamas with feet are good choices. In general, layered
clothing for sleep is practical, in case you need to remove or add a
layer. "Wearable blankets" or sleep sacks that won't get tangled can
also help keep your baby cozy.
Contrary to what you might think,
babies don't need more bundling up than adults. As a general guide, your
baby will be comfortable using about the same amount of clothing and
coverings that you would be comfortable using at the same room
temperature. An ideal room temperature for your baby is around 70 to 72
degrees F.
You can use a space heater in a chilly room, but make
sure it's fireproof. And remember that once your baby starts to be more
mobile — once she starts crawling, for example — a space heater can pose
a burn risk. To warm cold sheets, place a hot water bottle or a heating
pad in the bed for a while before bedtime. (The microwaveable type is
useful because it doesn't have to be plugged in.) Just be sure to remove
it before putting your baby down!
Here are some simple ways to
tell whether your baby is warm enough: If her skin is blotchy and her
arms and legs are cool and her cheek feels cool to the touch, add a
layer or cover her head (with a hat) and feet. On the other hand, if
your baby is damp or sweating, it's a sign that she's over-bundled and
moisture is accumulating on her skin. Too much moisture can lead to prickly heat, even in the winter, so take a layer off or change your baby's clothes so more air can flow over her skin.
Bathtime
Baby bathtub: A tub specially designed to hold a wriggling baby will keep yours safe
and give your back a break as well. See our bathtub buying guide for suggestions on what to look for.
Hooded terrycloth towels:
Experienced moms say wrapping up your baby in one of these soft hooded
towels is a great way to keep him warm and dry after a bath.
Gentle baby wash or shampoo: Just use a little, and make sure it's mild.
Health
First-aid kit: See what to keep in your
first-aid kit.
Bulb syringe: Use with saline drops to
clear your baby's stuffy nose.
Baby nail scissors or clippers: These help you
trim your baby's nails safely.
A soft-bristled baby brush: This is especially helpful for handling cradle cap.
Getting around
Front pack or sling: A newborn loves being held close; the warmth of your body and the thump of your heart will soothe him like nothing else. A pack or sling also leaves your hands free to do other things.
Stroller: For a newborn, you'll want a stroller
that reclines to almost flat, or allows you to snap on your infant car
seat. Babies shouldn't be propped upright for long until they're about 3
months old or until they've developed stronger neck muscles. If you're
shopping for a new stroller, check out our stroller buying guide for help.
Car seat:
U.S. law requires that your child sit in a car seat while riding in any
car – even on the way home from the hospital. For a newborn, you have
two choices: a rear-facing infant seat designed to be used until your
baby weighs around 20 pounds, or a convertible seat, which can face rear
or front, designed to be used by both babies and older children.
Soothers and entertainment
Swaddling blankets (2): Use these to
swaddle and comfort your baby.
Pacifiers:
A baby who seems to want to nurse or consume another bottle right after
a feeding may need something else to suck on, and a pacifier may do the
trick. Pacifiers can also soothe a fussy baby when you're on the go or
need some quiet time to rest.
Infant swing: Some parents find a battery-powered infant swing to be a godsend. The
swing's soothing back-and-forth motion can calm a cranky infant and buy you time to do something else with your hands.
Bouncy seat: Strap your baby into a bouncy seat, propped at a 45-degree angle, and he can see the world. It's designed to jiggle and soothe your baby.
White-noise machine:
The sound of waves crashing or rain falling can soothe a crying baby
and lull him into dreamland. These electronic wonders also work on
adults desperate for some shuteye.
Mobile: Hang
one of these over your baby's bed and you'll produce long hours of
entertainment for him. A newborn can see high-contrast black-and-white
images, and watching them drift overhead will fascinate and soothe him.
Some mobiles come with interchangeable primary-colored panels for an
older baby.
Nightlight: One of these inexpensive
lights will allow you to get through nighttime feedings and diaper
changes without having to switch on a light and completely awaken your
sleepy baby (and yourself).
Just for mom
Nursing bras (2 to 4): For comfort, buy 100 percent cotton without underwire. Some nursing bras unhook from the strap and others unsnap between the cups. You may want to try a couple of styles to see which you like best.
Nursing pads (disposable or washable):
Inserting one of these in each bra cup can keep your shirts dry between
feedings. Like diapers, pads come in both cloth and disposable styles.
In disposables, look for pads with a self-stick strip. Cloth pads are
usually made of flannel and need frequent washing.
Maxi-pads and panty liners: You'll want a couple of boxes of ultra-absorbent maxi-pads. When the lochia discharge slows, usually within two or three weeks, you'll also want a couple of boxes of panty liners.
Hemorrhoid wipes and cream:
Even if you didn't get hemorrhoids during pregnancy, you may discover
you have them as an aftereffect of the pushing during labor.
Ice packs:
If you experienced tearing during delivery, cooling ice packs will help
your recovery by reducing swelling and numbing soreness.